Saturday, July 14, 2012

Running Away From Problems

The House of Mirth
Edith Wharton
Chapters I & II, pages 147-168

Although the beautiful setting of blue waters and old time charm may be able to distract most people from their troubles in life, both Selden and Lily have a difficult time escaping their own. "[Selden] had reason to think that his three months of engrossing professional work...had cleared his mind of its sentimental vapours," (Wharton, 150). However, the sight of the Sabrina recalled all of the feelings which he consciously or unconsciously suppressed, and Selden realizes that "he had not come off unhurt" from his feelings for Lily (Wharton, 150). Yet, for some reason, he is hesitant to pursue his emotions and locks them away behind a personal detachment and analytical thinking. I can relate to Selden because I understand the conflicting feelings that he is experiencing: wanting something with all one's heart but knowing that it is not right in some fashion. Hopefully, he comes to a resolution to his inner conflict and is able to settle his relationship with Lily.

Lily, on the other hand, loses her concern for her financial responsibilities to Gus Trenor. Although she is able to relax and feel carefree, the seas do not wash away the burdens and debts held on the shores of home. But as Mrs. Fisher describes her, Lily likes to sabotage herself when life is going in her direction. "I think it's just flightness - and sometimes I think it's because, at heart, she despises the things she's trying for," (Wharton, 152). Finally! Someone offers an explanation as to why Lily can't seem to find happiness; it's all to her own accord.

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